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I holded a conversation yesterday with a duo respected male friends about the vantages and disadvantages to being a woman. Here Holds what we came upwardly:

Being a woman intends
+ free dates, and no pressure dating. Woman make n't need to make any of the request.
+ being handled like a lady. Men open our doors, give us first dibs on material, say us we 're beautiful - you get the thought.
+less hair on our body. Apparently the bozo believed this was an vantage. I 'm not a bozo, so I 'm attending bank them on this one.

It likewise intends

-it is presumed that we are automatically less athletic than any man Reactions ( directed at me, personally in the past 10 months ) include
`` we ca n't hold two filles following to each other ( on the volleyball judicature ) ''
`` Pheww, thank God the woman are divided... we ca n't hold two women on the Same squad ''
:: sees that I Get on his squad and permits out a smothered groan::
-we should shave our legs, axillas, and it is unacceptable to hold hair anyplace on our face besides our superciliums. This takes work.
-we are more cattish with other women. We judge each other, we gossip about each other, we are easily covetous and oftentimes we straight upward hatred each other for stupid grounds.
-career-wise, we need to plow with the glass ceiling

I conceive the large disadvantage is our relationships with other women. It Holds not uncommon for us to handle each other badly. I should state it comes from our ain insecurities about our looks, personality and our worth. Gossiping and judgment are our tools for bust each other down, but at the terminal of the day, we 're still followed our ain body and our ain fearfulnesses to gaze us in the face. And as a event, since we 've been doubting of everyone else, we employ those minds to ourselves. We cognize that we are n't perfect either and then we commence to detest ourselves. Our lives get about who holds the tightest tummy and the best nose. If we can get to understand and accept other women as beautiful, we will care less about the slipways we judged ourselves because we will pose a new measure.

Women, make n't get wrapped upwards in things that make n't count. Lashkar-e-Taiba 's learn to love each other and elevate each other upwards and we can make a whole new view on beauty and our ain self-regard, that is not be based on looks.

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